ABOUT ME
Me and my amazing wife.

What is it that defines a man?  Is it his mind? His heart? His thoughts?  Or is it like Batman said in Batman Begins, "It's what I DO that defines Me."  I'm not going to pretend like I know the answer, because I really don't.  What I do know is that it's our legacy that is remembered after we are gone.  18 years ago I met my amazing wife, Mei-lan, who has stuck with me and been my rock throughout some of the toughest years of my life (this one not excluded).  Together we have a couple amazing kids and have had some amazing adventures.  In my mind, my ultimate legacy is what type of people I raise my children to be.  I have a step-daughter whom I have raised since she was 2, and son who was born in the middle of a global pandemic.  It's been a ride so far and the ride is only going to get crazier, and that's okay.  I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was 36 years old.  I have had it my whole life, but just never really knew exactly what it was.  I have come to find it as both a blessing and a curse.  I'm sure I will blog about both ends of the dichotomy at some point.  I will say, that I am an absolute nerd and love everything to do with art and technology.  I have a ton of different hobbies, and I'm sure I will be adding more.